Female sexual arousal and orgasm is a complex process involving the entire woman, mind and body. The human mind receives sexual stimulation from the body, process it and based on previous learning and practice of causing the body responds. The brain can begin to process your sex drive in response to thought (sexual fantasies), visual stimuli (see a couple of nude), audible stimulation (hearing a voice pair), olfactory stimuli (odors from the body of a partner), and taste (flavor partner's body) . The body began the process of arousal as a result of a woman, or her partner, touching her genitals or breasts, the feel of air flowing across her exposed skin, or clothing that stimulate the genitals or breasts. Mind and body while able to experience sexual arousal separately, can not experience orgasm separately. Orgasm requires both the mind and body working together. Mental thought itself can produce an orgasm, but you still feel the orgasm in your body. All the stimulation and sexual arousal beginning of one of these factors, but orgasm takes both.

    At birth we respond to sexual stimulation based solely on instinct. If we feel safe and meet the needs of our material (matches), we most likely will merepon sexual stimuli very easily. This may be why nursing activities and to show genitals in the open air cause sexual arousal in infants. At birth we are very sensitive to sexual stimulation, and our thoughts have never learned of the sexual response with "appropriate". As a result, the moment of birth, orgasm and more controlled by physical stimuli than mental thought processes. Orgasm is a simple physical reflex response at birth.

    With the advent of puberty we have been taught to respond to sexual the "right". Us may know that sexual response is poor. We may have become so isolated from our physical sexual self in which we do not even realize it when we are sexually excited. This is true on the girls than the children of men, while men have an erection fairy tale. We know what a "good girl" and "bad girls". We know who the mate is appropriate, even if we can not think about them in sexual terms. Teenage girls and adult women, may not allow themselves to be in a situation that causes them to feel sexual, if they categorize it as something bad feelings. They may perceive sexual arousal as "love." They may tune out any sexual feelings, denying they occur, or they may respond so negatively to sexual stimuli that sex itself is impossible.

    Some women do not have many negative feelings toward sex and are openly sexual. They menikamati in a state of excited and looking for sexual stimuli freely. They do not care who or what causes they are passionate, they just enjoy it. Of course society views these "sexual girls" and "sexual women" and dubbed them "prostitutes" and "whores." In the confusion of our society, girls who avoid all sexual feelings is considered more "normal" than a woman who is openly sexual. It is less precise than twenty years ago, but still very true.

    Orgasm may be more of a mental perception than a physical experience for women, more than the men, as a result of severe sexual prohibitions placed on women. A man's ability to achieve erection and ejaculation is a symbol of manhood, a woman's sexual arousal and sexual kenikamatan may be seen as "beyond control" and "careless". That may be why the women often experience orgasm less than men because one should pretend that both are equally orgasmic at birth.

    Sexual Response Cycle.

    Two physically changes the body must be experienced if a woman having an orgasm. The first is "vasocongestion", blood gathered in the breasts and genitals. This caused her breasts and genitals become larger, the body feels warm or hot to touch, change the color of breast and genitals, and vaginal lubrication. The second is "Myotonia" or "nervous tension muscle (neuromuscular)", build up of energy in the nerve endings and muscles of the entire body. Myotonia is the "sexual tension" I refer to in my masturbation advice for women with pre-orgasmic. Myotonia is not "bad tension" experienced as a result of negative feelings. You may experience a strong mytonia because the feeling of fullness or closeness in your body prior to orgasm, the point of no return. Some of the women when confronted with strong myotonia can not allow themselves any further, let go, and therefore they do not experience orgasm.

    It should be noted, that some diseases, drugs (prescription and non-prescription), or diseases that affect blood flow, muscles, or nerves can limit or prevent myotonia and vasocongestion. If you can not experience myotonia and vasocongestion, you may not be able to experience sexual arousal and orgasm. If you have an illness or disease that directly affects the circulatory system, nerves, or muscle systems, you may experience weakening orgasmic. If you have been diagnosed with any of those things, please look at health and disability pages for more information. If you Mersa buffer that you do not experience sexual arousal, or only in a limited way, ask the advice of a doctor.







      "Three examples of variations from mixing picture female sexual response. Example 1 demonstrated multiple orgasms; second example shows the passion that reaches level kept stable without reaching orgasm (note that the revolution happened more slowly), and sample 3 memperlihstkan few short penurunana stimulus stage is followed by a phase resolution even faster. "

                From the book "Masters and Johnson on Sex and Human loving" Page 58
                Copyright 1982, 1985, 1986 By William H. Masters, M.D., Virginia E Johnson, and Robert C. Kolodny, M.D.

    

    The experts have solved sexual response cycle into four phases, stimulation, stable condition, orgasm, and resolution. Definitions of these things change and someone may not be aware of what is experienced in every stage of their bodies. The duration of time spent on a person to experience each stage, and even the sequence of each stage may vary in different people. A woman who was dating can experience sexual arousal several times, even without knowing it, without ever experiencing a stable phase. She may experience sexual arousal and stable phase as long as he danced, but not back on stage for a passionate toward home. Once at home she may quickly experience arousal and orgasm as a result of direct stimulation of the genitals without experiencing stable phase. The way in which a person experiences each stage is unique to them, and even this will change depending on their mood and with whom they.

    Arousal may be accompanied by physical responses and mental or physical stimulation:

          o Starting with vaginal lubrication, in 10-30 sec.
          o 2 / 3 part of the vagina becomes engorged.
          O uterus (womb) and cervix (the cervix) attracted to the top.
          o Labia majora thin out and separate.
          o The size of the labia minora increase.
          o The size of the clitoris (clitoris) to enlarge.
          o The nipple became erect as a result of contractions of the muscles.
          o We are at peak arousal, breast size can be enlarged.



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                From the book "Masters and Johnson on Sex and Human loving" Page 62
                Copyright 1982, 1985, 1986 By William H. Masters, M.D., Virginia E Johnson, and Robert C. Kolodny, M.D.

                

    As mentioned above, as a result of vaginal lubrication in the vaginal wall vasocongestin. Fluids humid "leak" from the wall of the vagina as a result of increased blood who is motivated to get there. This process is called "Transudation". Small droplets of liquid form inside the vagina moist as a result of this seepage. These liquid droplets collect together and flow out of the vagina, causing the vulva become moist. The number, thickness, and the smell of her vaginal lubrication varies between one and the other woman, and with the same woman depending on many factors, including menstrual condition, and what she ate. Presence of vaginal lubrication does not signify that a woman is really ready to have sex, also it does not mean he does not signify the existence of lubricating sexual excitement. Some women produce very little moisture and require the use of liquid water-based lubricant like KY Jelly. (The use of lubricants with a petroleum base materials can cause vaginal infections). While it's perfectly normal or temporary, if you're having problems with vaginal dryness during intercourse, consult your doctor. Other women who made so much fluid, so they soaked it all moist, which can be embarrassing when it happens in a public place. It is also normal, and this is only a result of variations in the female body.




 

                From the book "Masters and Johnson on Sex and Human loving" Page 66
                Copyright 1982, 1985, 1986 By William H. Masters, M.D., Virginia E Johnson, and Robert C. Kolodny, M.D.

                

During the stable phase a woman may experience:

        * Marked with the increasing sexual tension.
        * Improvement in the vagina caused vasocongestion third from outside the vagina to swell, causing the vaginal orifice size decreased probably 30%.
        * 2 / 3 the inside of the vaginal bulge. A woman may experience a strong desire to be fulfilled, pain in the vagina.
        * Number of vaginal lubrication may decrease during this stage, especially when extended.
        * The clitoris (clitoris) becomes increasingly erect, glandular moving toward the pelvic bone, becoming more hidden by the hood.
        * Labia minora greatly increased in thickness, about 2-3 times.
        * Increasing the size of inner labia outer labia can result in separating the vaginal orifice becomes more prominent.
        * The color of the labia minora change from pink to red for a woman who has not given birth, from bright red to dark red in women who have given birth. The actual color can vary, but no marked change in color.
        * The areola, the area surrounding the nipple color becomes swollen.
        * Breast, increased in size 20-25% for women who can not breastfeed, for women who have breast-feeding, less or no increase in size.
        * 50% -70% of women experience "turbulence sex" on their chest and other body areas resulting from increased blood flow near the skin surface.
        * The heart rate increases, perhaps beating clearly.
        * There is a sign of an increase in the amount of sexual tension on the thighs and buttocks.
        * The body of a woman now fully ready for vaginal intercourse.

    Masters and Johnson reported they had never seen a woman have an orgasm which originally did not experience dramatic changes in color labial if a woman is really experiencing prubahan this color, he more than likely have an orgasm.

    If you look at the entire change physically on the organs of sexual inside and outside, you can see that women were not fully prepared to have sex till late in phase stable. The body of a woman signaled its readiness by opening her vulva, vagina hole show. Humidity vagina itself does not indicate readiness. This may indicate that women need to extend the dating ritual before arriving in vaginal intercourse (*).



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                From the book "Masters and Johnson on Sex and Human loving" Page 67
                Copyright 1982, 1985, 1986 By William H. Masters, M.D., Virginia E Johnson, and Robert C. Kolodny, M.D.

 
During the orgasmic phase a woman may experience:

        * Rhythmic muscle contractions occur in the third outermost of the vagina, uterus (womb), and anus. The first muscle contractions are very strong, and occur with a slightly faster speed than there is a second (0.8 seconds). As orgasm continues, the contractions become less strong and occurs at a speed which is more rare. A mild orgasm may have 3-5 contractions, has a strong orgasm contractions 10-15.
        * "The volatility of sex" is even more clearly and cover larger parts of the body.
        Muscles around the body contract during orgasm, not just those located in the pelvic region (pelvis).
        * Orgasms also play a role in the brain, as demonstrated by the control of brain waves.
        * Some women will spend or squirting liquid from their urethra during orgasm. This is often called female ejaculation. While analysts are still finding out whether issued it is urine or female ejaculation, the source of the liquid is not very important, the women often reported having an orgasm is very strong when it happened. That's all really are the ways, the pleasure of women. No one questions male ejaculation, even if it was so gross smelling.
        * Myotonia clearly changed throughout the body, especially in the face, hands, and feet. Expression of the face of a woman signifies that she felt sick when she's having fun orgasms.
        * At the peak of orgasm the entire body went rigid for a moment.

    The women who have never experienced an orgasm, and women who are not sure if they have experienced it often asked, "orgasm is like what?" It is difficult, not impossible, question to be answered. Just imagine trying to explain to you what an orgasm was with a sneeze or a yawn. It is not easy to do what our feelings and brain interpret physical stimuli is subjective, it depends solely on the views of every individual. While we can measure the physical rangsangn, we can not measure how people feel. Even if a woman connected with the control equipment when she experiences 15 orgasmic contractions are great in the 10 seconds of each period of time, how do we know she experienced it more powerful than other women who just had a 5 contraction orgasm than four seconds last? Women who experience orgasm 10 seconds wondering why her orgasms are so weak! If a woman has experienced some forms of nerve damage, she became unable to say if he's having an orgasm or not.

    Here is a description (description) of the Masters and Johnson about the female orgasm: "Women often describe the sensation of an orgasm in the beginning with a feeling tense moment, that was quickly followed by an intense unpleasant feeling (great), which usually starts in the clitoris (clits ) and quickly spread throughout the pelvis. physical sensation of the genitals are often described as warm, exciting or scandalous, and this is usually a contraction of the muscles in their vagina or lower pelvic region, often described as "pelvic throbbing."

    Meanwhile, all organically orgasm is the same, varying only in strength and duration, a woman did not experience an orgasm during menstruation is usually completely different than how he experienced it during partner sex. In fact, the female orgasm is often reported their most "satisfying" happen during masturbation, possibly because they are the center of attention, and not worrying about or distracted by her partner. A woman having an orgasm totally differently if her vagina is empty than when a penis or hand is inserted. He became more aware of her contractions vagina when the vagina has something mengempit, or when the vagina is empty and the contraction itself. The women have an orgasm in your whole body, clitoral orgasm, vaginal orgasm, and orgasm uterine. Meanwhile, electronic media and say that all are equal, women will ask to be distinguished.

    Masters and Johnson, and others, to feel all healthy women can have orgasms when they were stimulated with only through vaginal intercourse itself. When the process of entering the penis will be pushing and pulling the labia in, resulted in the stimulation is not directly on the clitoris (clitoris), experts of sex that others do not agree with them. While technically this is possible, in practice it seems impossible.

    If the masturbation habits of women is an indication, vaginal stimulation are less likely to produce an orgasm rather than on activities that stimulate the clitoris directly. 90% of women who masturbate do it by stimulating their clitoris. Only 10% of women who stimulate their vagina while masturbating, and even they usually stimulate their clitoris at the same time. When a woman masturbates, she secured almost orgasm. Even if a woman's clitoris is not a sensory organs sex primary, the habit itself is ordered that he is the most orgasmic of stimulation clitoral, rather than stimulation through the vagina. Is worth to trust the women masturbate in any way other than the way that works best?

    As I mentioned above, a woman's body is not entirely ready to have sex until she is at peak arousal, and the stable phase. If a woman is highly aroused then it seems possible indirect stimulation of the clitoris, combined with strong emotional between a woman and her partner during intercourse, that psychological stimulation alone may produce an orgasm, if she is highly aroused. The same thing can not be said about a woman who tried to get out of the low level of sexual desire, all the way to orgasm in ways clitoral and vaginal stimulation with no langusung. If a woman's vagina to be imported penile numbness he found that stimulation indirectly against her clitoris itself does not quite push the threshold of orgasm even if she was highly aroused. Within reason to expect the women need clitoral stimulation to prepare them directly in sex even if they do not need it during vaginal intercourse to achieve orgasm.

    

During the resolution phase of a woman may experience:

        * If sexual stimulation continues, a woman may experience one or more additional orgasms.
        * Vagina, vaginal opening, return to their normal relaxed state.
        * Breasts, labia, clitoris, and uterus (womb) back to the size, position and color normal.
        * The clitoris and nipples become so sensitive to where each stimulus became uncomfortable.
        * "Gelora sex" disappear
        * There is a lot of sweat and breathing became labored.
        * The heart beats fast.
        * If orgasm does not occur, a woman still has most of what was mentioned above, but at much slower speeds. Blood was trapped in the organs of the hips, not distributed by orgasmic muscle contractions, causing a feeling of heaviness and discomfort in the hips.

    If a woman experiences one orgasm, he usually can experience more in one stage, as long as sufficient ongoing stimulus. Some women will experience more than one orgasm right after an orgasm before. The practice seems to make it more impossible. Very sensitive clitoris after orgasm first, requires a very soft touch or not touch directly. A woman only needs to give a little way out from the point of orgasm before she can experience the next orgasm. In this case, take a deep breath can help a woman recover faster, easier to move to the next orgasm. Most repetitive orgasms occur during masturbation as there is no or no one who transferred the woman from the pleasure, and vibrators are more likely to be used. Electric vibrator does not get tired, not like the hand of the woman herself, or her partner's hand. Couples who have the experience of a man found himself unable to orgasm continued stimulation of the partner. If a couple want to bring the female partner them toward orgasm again and again they may have to go through the pleasure of their own, at least temporarily.

    Is orgasm necessary for female sexual pleasure? While it is true that there are millions of women who have been living happily and filled his life without ever having an orgasm, their lives will probably be more enjoyable if they experienced it. Orgasm is a normal bodily functions. If the woman does not have an orgasm, he found himself feeling very uncomfortable after sex, because blood flow to the pelvis. Some reported, the women experienced pain in the back and other health problems as a result of the release of sexual tension. The doctors had been using a vibrator to give an orgasm in women patients as the treatment of women's health issues. While orgasm is not necessary for the happiness of women, but this makes life more enjoyable.

    For women who experience pre-orgasmic, and for those who have an orgasm with great difficulty, to achieve a balance between their desire for orgasm and orgasm their sexual happiness can be a challenge. Come face, there are many social pressures on women to have orgasms lately. The media is full of references to the pleasure of orgasm. The women want to have an orgasm is not just for its own benefit, but to make their partners happy and to be like their peers. For improvement for sure, orgasm has become a duty, against the pleasure only, for some women. As the women try so vigorously to achieve orgasm, sex is not fun and is a failure, for them and their partners. You can not force yourself, or couples to have an orgasm. If you become so absorbed in the mechanism of orgasm, you could lose the intimacy of sex.

    Usually it is easier for a woman to learn to orgasm during masturbation than it is for a woman to experience their first orgasm as a result of a sex partner. For this reason that pre-orgasmic women want to have sex partners for fun and intimacy, without trying to have an orgasm, at least part time to save their efforts for the orgasm masturbation stages, when they are alone and can think only of herself. The women usually are not able or willing to be unselfish enough to make themselves the center of attention during sex with a partner. They try to satisfy their own needs, but usually their own needs last fall by the way side.

    Forgery orgasm really bad idea. What began as a way of saving face in front of the new couple, and as a way to give the couple a morale boost, usually end up becoming a permanent way of life yag. Women tend to blame themselves for everything wrong in a relationship, so that their inability to orgasm is their own fault, so they pay the consequences. The woman was afraid to tell their partner that they have fake orgasm because it would disappoint their partners, so they do not. When you experience an orgasm that made-up, and decided to tell your spouse, you have to admit not only did not experience orgasm, but you must accept to lie down with your spouse, hiding something from him, and lied to them. Women who experience orgasm made-up will experience frustrated by their inability to orgasm. When a woman having an orgasm, which is pure or a made-up, he pointed to a partner that they have done a good job, and that they do not need to do differently next time. A woman who experienced an orgasm that far-fetched to say to a partner that they do not need to change their sexual technique, which is totally opposite of what should be said to him.

    

    New Research: Glamour Magazine, October 2000

    Based on the 1500 response woman on an online poll at Glamour.com

    To respond to that question, "How often do you fake orgasm?" The women responded:

    I never memalsukannya 45%
    1% -25% at times 34%
    26% -50% at times 10%
    51% -75% at any time 7%
    76% -100% at times 4%

    When a majority, 55% of women admitted doing something that they are not expected to do, that orgasm that made-up, this indicates a serious problem. In this case, the problem is that society leads women to believe that they should always experiencing orgasm during partner sex, and that there are negative consequences when they do not. An orgasm is nothing more than an orgasm. Orgasm has become a sign of where we measure the quality of our sexuality and society even as we stand in our environment. Society lead us to believe the woman "normal" always have an orgasm, and the "couple who cares" they always stimulate them to orgasm. We used to ignore the female orgasm; now we may be too much attention to it. This is important for women to realize that this is a social problem, not a matter of personal self. No woman should have an orgasm every time she had sex with a partner or masturbating. It's just way it is. Create an orgasm solely primary purpose of sex can actually make sex less enjoyable, and even tedious, if not too disappointing. If you want to experience great sexual pleasure and long, try not to have an orgasm.

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