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One of the most inappropriate questions to ask a woman after you have sex with him reportedly was "if you have an orgasm?" the possibility of a woman's response to this question would be like, "Of course I experienced it!" or "if you really pay close attention to me, you'd know!". This happens if he is still talking to you and you are not asleep. Reaction to this question may be very negative, regardless of apakaah he really have an orgasm or just pretending. This is due to societal expectations lies with him. Society leads us to believe that he naturally has to have an orgasm, because it is needed, if he wants to be considered as normal and modern woman.

When orgamse women in the past ignored, discarded, is now considered that all women experience it. In fact, now they may be expected to experience more than one and quickly. They also expect to be orgasmic without menperdulikan type of stimulation given their spouse or sexual expertise and knowledge of their partner. All the women in television and movies do, especially adult films that show people doing "real" sex. " Front cover of women's magazines in the shop windows mengiformasikan us how every woman can experience "mind blowing orgasm" if they follow the advice "easy" in it. Pecintaan novels, just like the movies, filled with women who experience orgasmic because the mere touch of a man, or woman. A woman may believe that all of his girlfriend having an orgasm during partner sex since they may never have told him differently, and he is usually not allowed to ask questions. The women were never taught how to have an orgasm so orgasm should happen instinctively. The women just lay there and mengalmi orgasm, right? If they do not experience orgasm, they did not fulfill its obligations towards their partners and the public.

    Despite our expectations, not always easy to tell if a woman has an orgasm. Some women exhibit all the classic signs of sexual arousal and orgasm as presented in textbooks and on this website. Even if they do, it's hard to nenyadarinya during sexual lust. The indication is based on observations tehadap orgasm many women mengalmi orgamse in a laboratory environment, not the bedroom with the lights off and the covers are drawn upward. "Data" which is collected is used to compile a listing of physical responses in general. These general responses have become "the expectations of the possibilities. This is the place where the mechanics can interfere with pleasure; when one tries to find a definition for which they never expected. You can not mark the boxes on the score card orgasm to determine whether you or your partner has an orgasm. The only way to know whether a woman has an orgasm is the expression to you that he has experienced it, because this actually came from her whether she had felt that he had mengaminya, not if it looks or feels like he has experienced it.

    There is no easy way to know whether a woman has an orgasm, even for the woman herself. Physical qualities of the female orgasm, and as a result of their perception of it, may change from orgasm to the next orgasm. There were several times where he may not know whether he really has to have an orgasm compared to experience intense sexual pleasure that may at any time be more enjoyable than an orgasm. If a woman have an orgasm, it does not automatically mean that he was experiencing pleasure or at least a continuous pleasure. An orgasm can be boring! Orgasm a woman can produce a physical sensation that is very little that he might want to know if it really is an orgasm. According to Betty Dodson, he has seen in women having orgasms when they do not feel that they have experienced it. The other woman did not know if they experienced it, do not know for sure, but they think they have it. If a woman does not know the orgasm in every event, whether able to expect their partner to know about it?

    Additional to this the fact that most young men and women do not know how a woman's appearance, voice, and perasaanya during orgasm because they have never been taught this information. If anything, the community makes every effort to prevent young people to know about it. We mengganggapnya abnormal and dangerous if a child or teenager see a woman having an orgasm. Society makes little or no effort to teach people about sexual pleasure and female orgasm. What we teach to the people is an accurate representation of reality. Are the movies and television is a good source of information, especially given is often most orgasms and sexual pleasure they experience is simply false? If anything, so why are often forced orgasm during sex "real"; 55% of women at least occasionally faked orgasm. We teach the girls and women how to forge an orgasm and the couple taught to expect them in a forced orgasm.

    Should you ask your spouse if he mengalmi orgasm? While this is not a bad question to ask, but it's probably best not to ask pertanaan. This is because chances are you are in a situation where you can not do anything about it if they do not. By this I mean you can not go back to repeat the time, and the desire and opportunity for sex may be gone if you wait to ask her after sex. If they do not mengalminya, which you can do about it just felt a little disappointed, either on yourself or your spouse, or both. So the questions that need to be asked is: "You want to have an orgasm?" and these questions need to be asked at the beginning of sex. You want to be proactive than reactive opponents.

    The main thing that must happen is for a woman is taking responsibility for their sexual pleasure and satisfaction. He could not leave the opportunity or dream of finding his knights in shining armor, their bias occurs only in fairy tales. Each woman must decide how important sexual pleasure for him. Even more important is that he is more trying, not the partner who experience it. He also must affirm what is not fun for him to form himself to someone he does not want. While this sounds cold and not romantic, he has to look at her partner as a tool that is ready for his pleasures, which are used for their own interests. This is along the two couples holding each other the same view, none of which becomes a sexual object because in the process of fulfilling their own desires, they will meet the partner's desire. This happens if they both be equally honest and give because they are selfish.

    Later a woman must decide whether he wanted or could experience an orgasm at the beginning of each sexual experience. The women often falsify orgasm because they do not want to have an orgasm, or know him well enough to know that this one is unlikely to occur during the upcoming sexual experience. They want to have sex because they enjoy the physical intimacy and pleasure even if orgasm is not possible, he wanted to talk about this to the next partner, he can frankly by saying, "I want to have an orgasm," or he asked for a form of sex that may be most will result in orgasm. He can say, "give me oral pleasure." If he does not want to have an orgasm, or was unlikely to experience, he can say, "tonight for you or" I want to give you pleasure. "He also should be able to say" no "or" stop ". If during Cunnilingus he realized he would not have an orgasm, she needs to say, you can stop now if you want. " Or more simple, "please stop". I realize this is not going to fall in what was intended with sex is romantic, but not also include a faked orgasm. A woman needs to be honest with herself and her partner if she really wanted to enjoy sex, regardless of whether orgasm occurs or not. A woman should talk to their partners clearly what he meant by his statement and his statement before sexual activity. A woman should clearly state what will and desire, even if you do not know what you want. Hey, lady, your spouse is not a mind reader, and you do not come with a manual that has a way!

    What should a woman's partner to do? They must acknowledge and accept that pleasure and orgasm is to his advantage (the woman), not hers. Increasing, men and women expect women orgasm mengalmi based commands. They wanted women to orgasm quickly and repeatedly every intercourse. Not as simple as that because they want to give pleasure to their partners, but also demonstrate the expertise and their own sexual power. They want to behave in accordance with societal expectations. They want mengangakat community expectations. Types want bragging rights, even if in fact they can not brag to friends and family. They want to feel good mengatahui they reached the "goal" is. This is understandable due to the women feel pressured to have an orgasm, to make their partners happy, to live up to expectations and hopes of their partner community. Since this is unrealistic expectations, the women often falsify orgasm as a result. To prevent this, couples must menberinya permit a woman to not have an orgasm, and asked him not to fake orgasm.

    Couple a woman may tell her, "I understand women faked orgasm, and often there are times when you do this. If you feel the need to fake an orgasm in the past, and felt it necessary to do so also in the future, I will be more glad you did not do it. I want you to know you have my permission to not have an orgasm if you feel you can not or do not want to experience it. ingn If you have an orgasm, tell me and tell me how I can help you best to have an orgasm. " Open communication is important.

    In addition, the spouse of a woman must look at every sexual experience with it because if it was their first experience. This is because you do not know what she really wants until she told you. After he told you, you do not know what will satisfy their needs until you try, and because it succeeded in the last time does not mean it will work again. If you have been together for 20 years, if you expect it wanted the same thing is always 20 years, if you expect it wanted the same thing always, and always it again? Just because something is successful 100 times before does not mean it'll work that into the 101 time. The women, like men, not machines with a set of program needs and responses that never change. Most often, we have a very narrow view of what our partner wants and desires, even though we never asked or been told by them. Society tells us what they want and we assume that that is what they want to do this is a big mistake. Couple a woman should be able to adapt and accept their needs. To really fill the needs of a woman, her partner should behave as if he did not know anything and accept the expression of wishes and desires without reservation.

    Once you accept that you do not know what his needs, you should find out what it needs. How do you do? Many will say to read a book about female sexuality, or perhaps visit the web like this. The problem with that is your spouse may not write a book or creating a website. Nor is it an accurate, or at least a complete, instructions for what to whom she or her needs, although some may try to convince otherwise. If you really want to know what is wanted in a woman, you should ask him. She may know about it, he can also not know it. The level of knowledge of the greatest women, experience and acceptance of sexuality, the better idea that she might have toward their needs. If he had never done masturbation or sex with a partner, he may not have ideas about what their needs and how best to menemukannnya. He probably only knows what he had hoped to enjoy, which is highly unlikely that what he really wants and needs. Since the women to make changes at any time, due to changes in their minds and their bodies caused by their menstrual cycle, pregnancy, and life goes up and down, they will not always know what they want and need. The same thing happened on the course on the men. You should see it as an adventure.

    If you want to be a great lover, you must first form the great adventures. To be a great adventure, you must keep the books and the keyboard and go do field research. If in the process of adventure you do not make some mistakes and you find yourself lost at any time, or find a few failed attempts., You really do not do adventure. If you are not a frustrating time (confused) or feel ashamed, you never challenge yourself. If you have never experienced failure, you become a great lover, but you will never become a great lover, but you will never become a lover who expected your spouse. He (the man) or she (women) who never fails will never have pengalamn great!

    What if orgasm occurs? If a woman experiences orgasm, he should discuss this with a partner, not pasangananya expect to find based on intuition. He is simple to say "I have an orgasm" or "thank you for a wonderful orgasm." He should not expect their partners to know that he's experienced it, even if he is thinking or feeling clearly that way. It is also a good idea for both parties to thank their partners for the pleasure they have given, even if orgasm does not occur.

    Couples should be open to the possibility of situations that occur where the female partner is thinking she (the woman) has mengalmi orgasm when he actually did not experience it. After experiencing sexual partner may feel happy when women feel disappointed that this misinterpretation of events. This happens because it is not common for women to show signs of utau indication of orgasm during sexual arousal. Spouse of a woman heard the woman scream or feel her thighs or vagina wrinkled probably refers to believe she has experienced orgamse and stopping sexual stimulation. One way to help prevent this for a woman is to become more aggressive during sex, by taking over control of what their partner. Do not allow your spouse to stop samapai you have experienced an orgasm, if it is there inginkan.Katakan him do not stop, do not be afraid to use physical force with a soft to get what you want and need. If you feel your spouse stops or decreases, do not be afraid to ask the opposite. If you really want something, you should make them know about it. However jangalah blaming your partner in that process.

    If after sex the woman did not experience orgasm, though she mengingikannya, he should discuss this with their partner. Couples need to determine ways of preventing this in the future, if possible, perhaps during or after dinner the next day these women could ask their partner if they could "discuss" their previous experiences of sexual nights. He then explains how the desire to be able to have an orgasm but he can not naturally, and then explain why it happened. He needs to be sensitive to the feelings of partner, but to be honest it would not hurt. Once he showed part of her, she needs to ask partner to show the part of him. Both need to ask questions until they understand what each was saying. Once they know the situation of both, and not before, they may consider possible solutions. It's just a case where the spouse does not know he wanted them to stimulate longer but they hope they know or they are just too tired to continue. It also could be a case where they do not know how to stimulate her to orgasm and she needs to teach them. They need to discuss the possibility that she needs and / or masturbate if you want this situation to happen again. If a woman does not talk about his desire for an orgasm to her partner, she is likely to realize desires never fulfilled.

    Couples need to be open to the idea that orgasm can be a barrier to sexual pleasure. Couples often view orgasm as a red light for sex, the signal to stop. Both partners will continue to do so all the lights are green, which means that orgasm has not occurred. This meant that sexual pleasure plays just before and during orgasm. What if both partners have an orgasm in five minutes? Compare this to the couples in which one or both mengalmi difficulty reaching orgasm and they had sex within 30 minutes samapai 60 minutes. Where couples have the greatest ability to experience sexual pleasure? Surprisingly, the answer is not the spouse who mengalmi orgasm quickly, so to speak. An orgasm is like a fireworks show, stunning during the last moments but always too fast. Do not become an orgasm solely as an end in sex or intimacy.

    An orgasm is just a form of sexual kesenagan, not the most ideal shape. Orgasm does not mean that will experience intense sexual kesenagan (wonderful) or achieve sexual fulfillment. Giving your partner an orgasm does not make you a great lover. Yes, an orgasm can feel great and make life more enjoyable / fun, but one that must be considered not to put unreasonable expectations on it. Even when people like it, they usually do not want it every time they have ice cream, and there are times when you can have it but know that it's better to go without it.

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